A Moment to Remember

It's hard to believe that it has been an entire year since we were handed a sweaty little bundle of China-Baby. In some ways it seems like it was just a few weeks ago, but in other ways it's hard to remember a life before she was a part of it, or as Lyle Lovett says: "Seems like she's always just been hanging here on my right arm."

I remember the day that we received her "mug-shot" pictures from the orphanage and got our first look at the baby that would become our daughter, and tried to imagine who she was and what she was like based solely on two tiny photographs. Looking back it is almost comical to think about what we expected, in the photos she is a chubby little stoic-looking kid. I remember asking her orphanage director if she ever laughed or smiled because she always seemed so somber in the few pictures we had seen. He laughed and said that she was a happy baby, and sure enough she has smiled pretty much non-stop since we got her. It is almost like she has an air that radiates around her that people are attracted to, we have never been anywhere that someone hasn't approached us and told us what a sweet child we have. Of course, since most of you have been around her, you know that already.

That long trip to China, taking her from the only life that she had ever known, those first few excruciating days when she could hardly stand to look at me...knowing now what I didn't know then would make me do every bit of it over again. Audrey has blossomed in ways that I never would have imagined, best being that she has finally figured out how much fun Da-Da is. I still rank a distant second behind Mom...OK, probably also fall behind "Granny" and "Poppa" in terms of popularity, but compared to those early days I will take it in a heartbeat. I don't know if it is nature or nurture, but Audrey likes the same things we like, loves the same foods as us, and has the same sort of temperment that we do. Her favorite things in the world are reading books, and being outside, and she is fascinated by any and all types of animals. She can already count to ten on her own, recognizes and with help can spell her name, and knows her a.b.c's. We are truly lucky to have been given the honor of caring for this amazing little girl.

Because Audrey's birthday falls smack in the midst of holiday season we have chosen to celebrate "Gotcha Day" the way most people would celebrate their actual birthday. But instead of giving gifts we would ask that you follow this link and make a small donation in honor of Audrey and all of her "sisters" who were cared for in Chinese orphanages so that those who need that same care in the future will have as much comfort as possible during their stay. Even if you only donate $5.00, it could mean an extra blanket or toy for a child who is waiting to find a family. http://www.halfthesky.org/

Thank you all for being a part of this first year, and we look forward to many, many more.